Free printable “Is it really time?” workbook (PDF)

Decide if it's time for a nursing home on paper, while things are calm.

This workbook shows what each option covers and what other caregivers in your shoes did.

“Is it really time?” (PDF)
Worksheet page with thresholds other caregivers named and blanks you fill inTable defining five care levels with a what-it-will-not-do columnCost worksheet with blanks for monthly income and what the place quotedScripts page with a write-in block for the words you will say

What’s inside

  • Page 1Where other caregivers drew the line
  • Page 2What each level is, and what it will not do
  • Page 3What it costs, and who pays
  • Page 4When they say no
  • Page 5The guilt page
  • Page 6Before you choose a place

En español

Las mismas seis páginas, en español.

What’s the catch?

There is none. Just download it, no strings attached! If it’s useful to you, share it with someone else who needs it.

Do I have to finish it all at once?

No. Work on it over time while things are calm. You can change your answers later as things change.

Can I use it on my phone or computer?

You can use both.

What if I don't have a printer?

You can fill it in on your computer using a PDF app and save it. Libraries and pharmacies have print counters if you need a paper copy later.

Work through the questions with someone you trust.

Figures checked July 2026. Rules change, and they are different in every state.